talking about the courage ----

My best friend who has the loving kindness, has the courage like you, I guess, people who has loving kindness or born with love in their spirit, doesn't get scared very easily.

I got scared all the time when I was in my youth, even when I became an adult, I still got a lot of fears, I didn't get rid of it until I was in my mid 30's. Everyone 成長 in their unique ways.  

Sometimes ones weakness is also ones merit, it's like both sides of the hand, they co-exist, you just can't separate one from the other.

You have unique characteristic of "loving kindness", that's why sometimes, it revealed as weakness or softness.

My best friend who I mentioned 美術社長 is like that, he was born with 仁慈的心腸, he is one of the loving-kindness person around, his attitute always linging toward the negative side, until one day he realize that in order to survive in this competitive world, he needs to be more positive, stronger and agressive, now his a completely different person with a successful career (做波音飛機的project),  he is still the same person I love, my best friend since the college in Kaohsiung, he has never lost his unique character of the loving kindness.

"去過安寧病房好幾回了...

死才能解脫...

我還在台大太平間睡過午覺呢...

我知道你是好意...

我會加油的..."

那就看看黃河, 掀開棺材看看呀! 我雖生在太平盛世, 但也出生入死無數回, 好好體會生死的傷痛, 好好的看待生命的疾苦, 經常到安寧病房走幾回, 你就會知道生命有多可貴, 你自己有多幸運. 存在是多麼美麗的一件事.