珍惜現在擁有的, 就是幸福!

Lots of time, to get what we deserve is easy--just do it and never give up.

Lots of time, to lose what we deserve is easy--just ignore your talent of accomplishing something good and never put your heart to it.

Which one is " Happiness"?

I think both of them can be regarded as " Happiness"--it is a choice of mine, it is a decision of me, and it is me who has the right to get what I deserve or to give up what I ask for.

Things are never complicated, but thoughts are complex.

To get what I deserve is as easy as to give up what I deserve.

The bottom line is whether I am happy with my own decision of getting it or giving it up.

The bottom line is the definition of mine about getting it or giving it up.

The beauty of the final decision comes from the struggles, conflicts, debates, reflections, dialogs within during the process and the braveness to face the circumstances and take the responsibilites.

Somebody needs more time to straighten out his/her thinking, nobody can judge and critize everybody's ways of living, doing, or being. Everybody needs somebody's supportive back-up and everybody can find his/her uniqueness and oneness after trials and errors and everyone can be somebody he/she wishes to be. But it takes a lifetime effort and endless hide-and-seek.