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My son loves to play PC game while he has free time, and he joins cross country running becasue his close freind does so.   But I didn't see he practices at High school and go to meet for competition.    I start to fees he should spend time on his school work, prepare SAT, exercise routine etc for college.  But he always told me he does fine at school, he get all A.    I don't understand why he is so relax/lazy at everything, but I have to worry so much about his computer game, school work and SAT/ACT tests.     I hope one day, he can wake up and spend more time at everything that he chooses, don't be so lazy and relax.   Otherwise I am sleepless for his 4 years high school.
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2014/03/19 17:54

說不定兒子發現媽咪怎麼一反常態不那麼"關心"他的事

會反過來表現得更好?

不過話說回來,他似乎在課業上游刃有餘嘛


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2013/08/28 22:47

申請大學 從九年級的成績就算數 當父母的會緊張 也是很正常

但是每一個人選課不同 也端看學校可提供的課

我們以前的高中很大 一年級就有上千人 所以九年級就有一些AP 因此課業很繁重

但是我給孩子的guide line是 遊戲與工作要分開

做功課學習要專心 遊玩時 我也讓他盡興玩 養成好的working habit

不過父母好似總認為他們不夠盡力 而他們總認為自己很好 這是彼此認知的差異

也許可以與孩子好好溝通 來個約定

現在是暑假還是可輕鬆一些 


Yayawww(yayawww) 於 2013-10-18 08:49 回覆:
I feel is my responsibility to make suer he can handle his school work well, but I don't think he cares at all.

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2013/08/26 09:14

你的兒子可能只有九年級?準備SAT 明年暑假開始就可以了。

他的學校功課都是A,那你還擔心什麼呢?或許你可以和他一起把目標定出來,例如多少時間玩games,多少時間做功課,準備升學需要的,只要達到目標就可以,細節等讓他自己打點。給他成長的空間。

不過說真的,九年級,其實是很早啦!大笑你還可以先睡足覺。


Yayawww(yayawww) 於 2013-10-18 08:51 回覆:
thanks for response, he is at 10th grade.  He told me all his friends do'n't prepare so earlier. He only listen his close friends opinion.  :(