看一次達賴喇嘛怎麼說
轉載香港某記者和達賴喇嘛的幾組經典對話，頗有禪理！

一問 : 失去的東西，有必要去追討嗎？
達賴說：失去的東西，其實從未曾真正地屬於你，不必惋惜，更不必追討。

二問 : 生活太累，如何輕鬆？
達賴說：生活太累，一小半源於生存，一大半源於欲望與攀比。

三問 : 昨天與今天，我們該如何把握？
達賴說：不要讓太多昨天佔據你的今天。

四問 : 如何對自己，對他人？
達賴說：對自己好點，因為一輩子不長；對身邊的人好點，因為下輩子不一定能遇見。

五問 : 您如何詮釋禮貌？
達賴說：對不起是一種真誠，沒關係是一種風度。如果你付出了真誠，卻得不到風度，那只能說明對方的無知與粗俗。

六問 : 我們如何確定自己的目標？
達賴說：如果你知道去哪，全世界都會為你讓路。

七問 : 怎樣平衡快樂與悲傷？
達賴說：一個人只有一個心臟，卻有兩個心房。一個住著快樂，一個住著悲傷，不要笑得太大聲，不然，會吵醒旁邊的悲傷。

八問 : 我們怎樣做才叫腳踏實地？
達賴說：只要你的腳還在地面上，就別把自己看得太輕；只要你還生活在地球上，就別把自己看得太大。

九問 : 有人說愛情會因為時間而沖淡，您認為呢？
達賴說：愛情，使人忘記時間，時間，也使人忘記愛情。

十問 : 兩個相愛的人不能在一起，怎麼辦？
達賴說：不能在一起就不能在一起吧！其實一輩子也沒那麼長。

英文登在

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Dalai Lama's Answers

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A Hong Kong reporter had the chance to have a dialogue with the Dalai Lama, and it is quite inspiring. The questions asked and the answers are below:

Q: Is it necessary to go after what has been lost?
The Dalai Lama said: The things that were lost never really belonged to you, anyway, so neither should you regret it, nor pursue it.

Q: Our lives are often tiring, so how can we relax?
The Dalai Lama said: Life is indeed tiring, but remember that only a small part is trying to survive, the bigger part comes from desire and comparison.

Q: How should we grasp yesterday and today?
Dalai said: Don't let yesterday take up more of today.

Q: How do you treat yourself, and treat others?
Dalai said: Be good to yourself because a lifetime is not long. Be good to the people around you, because you won't be able to meet them in your next life.

Q: How do you interpret politeness?
Dalai said: A "Sorry" shows sincerity, but a "No sweat" shows a kind demeanor. If you are sincere but do not have a kind demeanor in return, it only shows the ignorance and vulgarity of the other.

Q: How do we find our goals?
Dalai said: If you know where to go, the world will make way for you.

Q: How do we balance happiness with sadness?
The Dalai said: One person has only one heart, yet that heart has two atria. In one there lives happiness, and in another, sorrow. So do not laugh too loud. Otherwise, you will wake up the sadness.

Q: How can we be down to earth?
The Dalai said: For as long as your feet are on the ground, don't do not make light of yourself too much. As long as you are living on earth, don't make yourself too big.

Q: Some people say that time will dilute love, what do you think?
Dalai said: Love makes people forget time, while time makes people forget love.

Q: If two people love each other but can not be together, what should they do?
Dalai said: If they cannot be together, let it be. Life is not that long anyway.