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『Just like courage implying all the good things you have listed, silence is something wonderful too -- full of deep thoughts, genuine care, meaningful conversation, careful calculations..., and GOLD. 』Thanks 子建 for sharing me his words of wisdom.
Yeah, silence is golden. But I seem to be too talkative from time to time. Therefore, I do believe it is necessary to be quiet and enjoy some moments of "Silence."
Constructive and meaningful communication of silence with caring love and genuine care should be encouraged since not everything can be expressed and understood verbally but everything should be felt and sensed with an attentive and thankful heart.
Sharing can be carried out in diverse ways; verbal communication or nonverbal communication are equally important. However, mutual communication with respect and appreciation in either way is a key to solve all kinds of problems among different relationships.
I can hear more clearly when you don't speak but you care. ( When there is a cold fight, a positive silence is the way to calm down or cool down from overwhelming and negative emotions.)
Lots of times, people know or understand without being told because positive nonverbal communication means something beyond words and speaks louder than some words.
No one can deny the important of " SILENCE", but the golen rule is not always suitable for all conditions. However, knowing when to express ourselves properly in the right place at the right time is far more important.
Constructive and meaningful communication of nonverbal languages, such as attentive eye contacts, warm hugs, firm handshakes, sweet notes in written words, a handmade gift, a lovely drawing, a head nod of affirmation with since not everything can be expressed and understood verbally but good wills and appropriate intentions can be felt nonverbally.
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