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Silence is golden
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『Just like courage implying all the good things you have listed, silence is something wonderful too -- full of deep thoughts, genuine care, meaningful conversation, careful calculations..., and GOLD.  』Thanks 子建 for sharing me his words of wisdom.

 

Yeah, silence is golden. But I seem to be too talkative from time to time. Therefore, I do believe it is necessary to be quiet and enjoy some moments of "Silence."


Sharing can be carried out in diverse ways, and keeping quiet may be a great way to communicate, digest and meditate the language beyond words.


I can hear more clearly when you don't speak but you care.


Lots of times, we don't need to communicate with veral communication, but nonverbal communication of being silent means something and speaks louder than some words.


Exchanges of the eye contacts, the sincere acts of warm hugs, the genuine poses of firm handshakes, and the thoughtful and appreciative understandings are serves as communicative bridges between indifferent gaps.


Nonverbal communications are closer to each others' hearts since mutual trust, mutual respect, mutual understandings and mutual communication lie in the genuine, still and true hearts.

Constructive and meaningful communication of silence with caring love and genuine care should be encouraged since not everything can be expressed and understood verbally but everything should be felt and sensed with an attentive and thankful heart.


Experience the beauty of silence and golden of silence and regard " silence" as the best teacher. Saying nothing sometimes says the most and the best answer to negative emotions is silence.


Sharing can be carried out in diverse ways; verbal communication or nonverbal communication  are equally important. However, mutual communication with respect and appreciation in either way is a key to solve all kinds of problems among different relationships. 

I can hear more clearly when you don't speak but you care. ( When there is a cold fight, a positive silence is the way to calm down or cool down  from overwhelming and negative emotions.)

Lots of times, people know or understand without being told because positive nonverbal communication means something beyond words and speaks louder than some words.


Exchange and progression of thoughts, feelings or ideas toward mutual understandings are the purposes of communication. However, I still couldn't deny that silence is a kind of expressive and powerful language without words. 

No one can deny the important of " SILENCE", but the golen rule is not always suitable for all conditions. However, knowing when to express ourselves properly in the right place at the right time is far more important.

Constructive and meaningful communication of nonverbal languages, such as attentive eye contacts, warm hugs, firm handshakes, sweet notes in written words, a handmade gift, a lovely drawing, a head nod of affirmation with since not everything can be expressed and understood verbally but  good wills and appropriate intentions can be felt nonverbally.


Expect something positive, cheering,  inspiring and encouraging can be shared and encouraged verbally and nonverbally.  Expect sucessful and mutual understandings everywhere anytime since everyone appreciates constructive and meaningful communications in diverse ways.

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2009/02/28 19:41 【楊若林(散文&心情分享)】 沉默心情

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沉默是金
2009/02/28 23:17

沉默金----- 金無赤金, 適當加入良言更有力度.

I can hear more clearly when you don't speak but you care.

此時無聲勝有聲-----言為心聲

休將我語同他語, 焉知他心似我心


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