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但................要無怨無悔

是不是選擇所愛 愛自己所選擇 就能無怨無悔??

Life is mysterious due to the reason that we have countless choices to make, we have numerous decisions to make, we have dozens and dozens uncertainties to meet,  we have piles and piles unsolved problems ahead, we have thousands of challenges to deal with and we have endless desires to be satisfied.

But how can we live and die without regrets?

I guess the bottom line is clear and bright--Have I ever tired? Have I ever tried my best to face myself? Have I ever tried my best to meet my potentials and even to exploit my potentialities? Have I said something burried inside my heart truly? Have I had the courage to do something I am supposed to do? Have I hurt anyone on purpose? Have I tried hard enough to do things right and do right things? Have I ever loved someone deeply ? Have I ever loved myself all-heartedly? Have I ever played the role as someone's somebody?

I do believe life without regrets is a wonderland.

I do believe life without regrets is a happinessland.

I do believe life without regrets is a fantasyland.

I do believe life without regrets is a dreamland.

People only feel regretful when they dare not to do what they desire to fulfill.

I think I have no regrets because I know I did my best. I will only feel regretful when I don't have the courage to admit what I want, I dare not to go all-heartedly for something or someone I've longed for in my entire life.

Maybe " Just Do It " , " I've done my best" , " Leave the rest to time" are the keys to be content without regrets in life.

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怨悔之境
2008/12/26 23:24

人生不用畏懼怨與悔,沒有怨與悔的人生不見得精彩

但人生可貴之處在於懂得將怨與悔轉換成智慧與經驗

「擇其所愛、愛其所擇」雖是一句歷久彌新的情境語

但如何去辨別擇與愛的原點與宿命才能讓這句話永恆

當不同的人面對相同的一句話所產生不同的解讀意義

我想浩瀚人生才擁有不同的哲思從而有悲歡喜捨之境

Happiness(s222460428) 於 2008-12-26 23:51 回覆:

Haha, I have read your feedback more than ten times but I don't know how to reply.

It takes time to digest. But I do know--心安理得就是無怨無悔  平安健康就是幸福

歡喜人人愛 但悲捨處處在

怨與悔的出現在於沒去做 而非沒做好

俗話說 千金難買早知道 在於錯失良機 怨悔自己沒有行動

俗話又說 盡人事 聽天命  當自己以真心盡力 成事與否 則非我能掌握

事實上 我則深信 隨遇而安 船到橋頭自然直

只要問心無愧真心盡力 就是無怨無悔