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2008/05/27 09:17:28瀏覽528|回應5|推薦5

說話

表達自己

和別人有積極的溝通互動

似乎是本能

大多時候也被視為理所當然

有口難言

甚至當自己努力表達時

卻言不及義

或別人根本聽不到

亦或聽不懂時

那種感覺很不是滋味

聲音代表你的形像

你的聲音可以有信任感

你的聲音可以充滿活力熱情

你的聲音為你散發感染力

你的聲音可溫暖另一顆孤寂的心

聲音沙啞的我,最好愛自己的方法就是

少講話、多休息、補充水份。

當然更重要的是多些時間聽聽別人怎麼說

畢竟傾聽也是種雙向溝通的必要條件

靜下心來聽聽自己的內在聲音(inner voice)似乎更是重要

在失聲的這段時間中 感受到朋友 家人 同學

甚至學生的主動關懷

那是甜甜的感覺

祝我早日發聲

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Frank
thanks for the message
2008/05/28 10:09

This message reminds me that I can pay more attention to the people I care when they do something, their facial expression, their gesture, what they choose and the way they treat me. Verbal communication is one part of communication.

Frank

Happiness(s222460428) 於 2008-05-28 12:36 回覆:

Good communication is as charming, fascinating, appealing and captivating as strong coffee or hot tea which makes me awake, enthused and inspired.


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The powerful silence
2008/05/27 23:57
http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_silence.html
Rachel Naomi Remen:

The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.


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We need silence to touch souls
2008/05/27 23:54

 “See how nature - trees, flowers, grass - grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence...we need silence to be able to touch souls.”

 Mother Teresa

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Silence speaks louder
2008/05/27 23:52

 “Silences make the real conversations between friends. Not the saying but the never needing to say is what counts.”  Margaret Lee Runbeck

 


Charles
Voiceless is a blessing
2008/05/27 21:24

Sometimes, it is a blessing if you become voiceless. You could enjoy listening what people are trying to say. Without two-way communication, how can you do the meaning negotiation?  Share us your comments. Wish your voice be back soon.

Happiness(s222460428) 於 2008-05-27 23:47 回覆:
Thanks for your feedback. As long as I can dialog with my soul, I have a feeling of staying in the heaven. Besides, I think some how the meaningful negotiation doesn't necessarily lie in the verbal communications. Silence between two persons is a unique way of meaning negotiation. I think I just enjoy the atmosphere of harmony and mutural trust and understanding.