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我的平凡只有妳懂得賞識- i see you
2010/06/18 00:23:46瀏覽333|回應0|推薦1

在我們生活中很多的指責.抱怨., 也許那是無心的.但對一個人的影響卻那麼深遠.想想我們是否也懂得欣賞
自己最親的人?(家人.部屬.學生)

只有你能欣賞我

 

 

第一次參加家長會,

幼兒園的老師說:「你的兒子有多動症,在板凳上連三分鐘都坐不了,你最好帶他去醫院看一看。」 

 

回家的路上,兒子問「老師都說了些什麼」,她鼻子一酸,差點流下淚來。

因為全班30位小朋友,惟有他表現最差;惟有對他,老師表現出不屑。
然而她還是告訴她的兒子:「老師表揚你了,說寶寶原來在板凳上坐不了一分鐘,現在能坐三分鐘了。

其他的媽媽都非常羨慕媽媽,因為全班只有寶寶進步了。」

那天晚上,她兒子破天荒吃了兩碗米飯,並且沒讓她餵。

 

兒子上小學了。

家長會上,

老師說:「全班50名同學,這次數學考試,你兒子排第40名,我們懷疑他智力上有些障礙,您最好能帶他去醫院查一查。」

回去的路上,她流下了淚。

然而,當她回到家裡,卻對坐在桌前的兒子說:

「老師對你充滿信心。他說了,你並不是個笨孩子,只要能細心些,會超過你的同桌,這次你的同桌排在21名。

說這話時,她發現,兒子黯淡的眼神一下子充滿了光,沮喪的臉也一下子舒展開來。

她甚至發現,兒子溫順得讓她吃驚,好像長大了許多。

第二天上學時,去得比平時都要早。

 

孩子上了初中,

又一次家長會。

她坐在兒子的座位上,等著老師點她兒子的名字,因為每次家長會,她兒子的名字在差生的行列中總是被點到。

然而,這次卻出乎她的預料,直到結束,都沒聽到。

她有些不習慣。

臨別,去問老師,

老師告訴她:「按你兒子現在的成績,考重點高中有點危險。」

她懷著驚喜的心情走出校門,此時她發現兒子在等她。

 

路上她扶著兒子的肩,心裡有一種說不出的甜蜜,

她告訴兒子:「班主任對你非常滿意,他說了,只要你努力,很有希望考上重點高中。」 

 

高中畢業了

第一批大學錄取通知書下達時,學校打電話讓她兒子到學校去一趟。

她有一種預感,她兒子被清華錄取了,因為在報考時,她給兒子說過,她相信他能考取這所學校。

他兒子從學校回來,把一封印有清華大學招生辦公室的特快專遞交到她的手,突然轉身跑到自己的房間裡大哭起來。

邊哭邊說:「媽媽,我知道我不是個聰明的孩子,可是,這個世界上只有你能欣賞我……」

這時,她悲喜交加,再也按捺不住十幾年來凝聚在心中的淚水,任它打在手中的信封上。

 

一句鼓勵的話,可以改變一個人的觀念與行為,甚至改變一個人的命運!

一句負面的話,可以刺傷一個人的心靈與身體,甚至毀滅一個人的未來! 


  

from : website

We live in a lot of criticism. Complain., Maybe it was unintentional. But a person's impact is so profound. Think we also appreciate
Their most pro-people? (Family. Subordinates. Students)



Only you can appreciate my

  

  

First time parents,

The kindergarten teacher said: "Your son has ADHD, the bench with three minutes are not sitting, you'd better take him to the hospital to see."

  

On the way home, my son asked, "what the teacher said," she nose acid, almost to tears.

Because the whole class of 30 children, only his worst performance; only to him, the teacher showed disdain.
However, she told her son: "The teacher praised you, that baby can not sit on the bench had a minute, are now able to sit for three minutes.

Envy of other mothers are mothers, because only a baby step in the whole class. "

That evening, her son ate two bowls of rice first time, and did not let her feed.

  

Son in elementary school.

Parents meeting,

The teacher said: "class of 50 students, the math exam, your son ranked No. 40, we suspect there are some obstacles to his intelligence, you had better check with him to the hospital."

The way back, she shed tears.

However, when she returned home, but then at the table's son said:

"Teachers have confidence in you. He said, you are not a stupid child, as long as more careful, more than you at the same table, this time behind your table with 21."

Said this, she found her son's eyes suddenly filled with dim light, the face of frustration has come to a sudden stretch.

She even found her son was so gentle surprise, seems to grow up a lot.

The next day at school, to get to be early than usual.

  

Children to junior high school

Another parent.

She sat on her son's seat, waiting for the teacher point of her son's name, because every time parents, her son's name in the ranks of poor students always point to.

However, this was not what she expected, until the end, no hear.

Some are not used to her.

Parting, ask the teacher,

The teacher told her: "by your son's performance, focus on high school test a little dangerous."

With surprise her feelings out of school, this time she found her son waiting for her.

  

Leaning on her son's shoulder the way my heart has a strange sweetness,

She told her son: "you are very satisfied with the class teacher, he said, as long as you work, focus on promising high school admitted."

  

High school graduation.

The first college acceptance letter issued, the school called her son to school trip.

She had a hunch, Tsinghua University admitted her son was because candidates, she said her son, she believed he could obtain the school.

His son came back from school, put a seal with Tsinghua University Admissions Office Speedpost handed her hand, suddenly turned and ran to his room and cried.

Weeping, saying: "Mom, I know I am not a clever boy, but, in this world that only you can appreciate my ... ..."

At this time, she tragicomic, unable to remain 10 years condensed in the minds of tears, let it play in the hands of the envelope.

  

Word of encouragement can change a person's values and behaviors, and even change one's destiny!

A negative, it can hurt a person's mind and body, or even destroy a person's future!
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