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母愛的呼喚,親情的念叨 (2017-11-24 淩晨)
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From: pearl
Date: Fri, Nov 24, 2017 at 1:44 AM
Subject: Good luck for the interview
To:  ingrid
Darling

Life is a long journey and I am glad that I have come a very long way. The journey has never been easy at the times, but everything in the memory turns out to be not as hard as it was.
It is the life. The more you go along, the more you gain in the end.
Therefore my advice for you is no fear, God is in control. You do your best, God will reward you in His way at anytime sooner or later.
I have confidence in you about your intelligence in terms of IQ and EQ. No one can be perfect disregarding the age but especially in the youth. There is the strength about being young more than the weakness.
You are at the best of the age for the life now, not too young, not too old. Be yourself, taking it easy, not pressure yourself, then you are just fine.
Interview is the opportunity for you to be known to but also for you to know the person who interviews you. The boss does not mean always better than you, but he or she can be in the position with the power over you about the decision of the employment for now. Thats all.
No matter what, showing respect and keeping good communication are the keys to build up the connections inside your career network.
Even if you do not get the job, the impression you create during the interview may have impact for the better in the future too.
Every job needs experience to push the skill up the level, the job interview is one of them, the more the better for the sake of the practice. The practice makes perfect.
Good skills with the interview leads you to more options of the job choice, eventually will shape the skills in good communications.
Good luck, Darling.
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hui998
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2018/07/03 03:11
心很痛為人父母~
pearlz (民進黨抹黑霸凌WHO )(pearlz01) 於 2018-07-03 05:17 回覆:

謝謝 hui998!的回應。

是的,很痛。孩子從十五歲開始沒有享受家的溫暖,身邊沒有父母庇護。整整 10 年。孩子被父母丟在僑居地,沒有任何親人.....真的好心痛。

十年後我們回來了,才懂得改善家居生活品質,孩子卻永遠沒有機會分享。沒齒難忘的悔恨,我寧可不要婚姻,不要老公,只要看到孩子活得好好的。但是太遲了。


Celine (到底誰是老師)
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2018/06/29 04:50
一口氣讀了您發的各封 email messages,看得出您和英格的 bond 相當深厚。

三年前我必須回台任職,離開孩子們 ─ 從天天見面到每週 Skype 一次 ─ 讓我難以適應;後來母子三個人建立 FB group, 我和小兒子有時 message with each other, 有事可以立即下線,才能維持一定聯繫而不至於打擾對方生活/工作。

許多我在台灣的好友口頭上羨慕我們有「海外基地」,但深知遠距家庭關係維繫不易,即使有能力也不願意赴海外工作。(朋友是有智慧的,也是看了不少先例之後的決定、、、)

無論如何祝福您~~~
pearlz (民進黨抹黑霸凌WHO )(pearlz01) 於 2018-06-29 05:23 回覆:
谢谢 Celine 的回应。
真的后悔莫及,想到当年熟悉的朋友都极力主张必须跟着老公走,也许她们都是我的年龄,孩子都大了,没有想到我的孩子还小。
高龄妈妈的苦处啊!同龄妈妈看不到我的问题,所以家庭与婚姻真的是家家有本难念的经,外人无法懂。

在海外一两年还不是太差,超过三年就真的难以挽回了。

我现在真的只有捶胸顿足了。

異鄉芝麻事-洛城的居家安全生活
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2018/06/28 06:01
珍珠姐一口氣發了多篇文章,可見思女情深。
pearlz (民進黨抹黑霸凌WHO )(pearlz01) 於 2018-06-28 06:19 回覆:

謝謝異鄉傑瑞的回應。

Actually I did not mean to share these in public but to file them away here for my own reference, for the sake of the family in case.

英格是 2016 年 6 月開始不告而別離家的,那時我真的無助痛苦。後來想到為了孩子,自己振作起來努力生活,做孩子的好榜樣。

那時候我很忙,只是用短信隨時讓女兒知道我的狀況。再後來有時間才想到進一步的心靈溝通必須寫 email。

做媽媽的很清楚女兒在外面省吃儉用過的生活品質很差,怎能不痛心。事實證明我的郵件及短信達到效果,女兒的心就慢慢回來了。可嘆的是,做父親的不懂得女兒,用他自己膚淺的想法,把自己最親愛的女兒,推出溫暖的家。